Why is it that some people can find someone and get married, be perfectly happy and never have issues, while others wonder how to save my marriage? Sadly, many couples enter into a relationship with the illusion that all will be well until death do us part. If we had a crystal ball that would show us the future, do you think our troubles would be over? I think possibly so, but this is not the case. A troubled marriage can use all the help it can get. But what happens when its not apparent that trouble is brewing? Look for the following signs that your relationship may be starting to slip: lack of conversation, no sexual relations, increased time apart, change in personal care and long nights at the office are all signs of a struggling relationship. If you seriously want your relationship to work you may need to take the initiative and do something about it.